Memorial Day CRISISS!!

[Just Visiting]

should i spend memorial day day patrying with dude friends or with my girlfriend's parent's house?

[Monahan]

If you can party with a house, always take that option. Houses got mad stories! Sometimes up to 4!

[Juan]

Bite the bullet and hang with your girlfriend & family.

[Just Visiting]

yeah the voting is 6 to 3 in favor of hanging with partying with my boys but wel'l see.

[TommyP]

Depends. Who kisses better? The dudes or your girlfriend?

[Fooomfh]

party with your girlfriend and her parents!!!

cool dudes are cool dudes, but odds are you aren't going to be having sex with your dude friends any time soon. get loaded with your gf in front of her parents and then when they fall asleep you can make quiet love to her. foolproof.

[POPS]

is Patrying any different than Partying cuz if it is I may need to revote.

[Gina Little]

If you are questioning it, don't bother with the girlfriend. If she came first you wouldn't ask the question in the first place. Go hang with the boys and have a great time!

[LoLo]

If you are questioning it, don't bother with the girlfriend. If she came first you wouldn't ask the question in the first place. Go hang with the boys and have a great time!
subtly saying you don't care about your gf!

[Just Visiting]

guys come on serious replys only ok.

[Sri_Casimir]

Let your GF decide for you. Depending on what she decides, you will know exactly what she thinks of you.

[Fooomfh]

then


have sex with her.


please tell me we're not debating that.

[Frymire]

guys come on serious replys only ok.

.....he said on an improv message board.

[Just Visiting]

well for those who are still following this my girlfriend got pissed off i was even debating about this. so now shes pissed off and i do'nt even know if i'm invited going to her parent's house.

[Jenstab]

Your girlfriend will probably continue to be mad at you for days on end if you bail on this. Your dude friends will probably just call you a girl and a wussy and pussy whipped. It doesn't really matter at this point what you'd have more fun with, it's what you'll get less shit for later. Probably shouldn't tell her you made a poll to decide also.

[Frymire]

Well, now that you're officially in the dog house, might I recommend you buy her some flowers and settle in for a few days worth of groveling?

Or perhaps this just a sign that you two should break things off....?

I'm really waiting for this to be revealed as a bit.

[LoLo]

well for those who are still following this my girlfriend got pissed off i was even debating about this. so now shes pissed off and i do'nt even know if i'm invited going to her parent's house.
i told you

[Juan]

If you are questioning it, don't bother with the girlfriend. If she came first you wouldn't ask the question in the first place. Go hang with the boys and have a great time!

wow this makes so much sense. well there's your answer. like it or not. i guess truth hurts. but unless the parents are lame then i can see yeah because i've dealt with my share of suck ass families.

[speedymarie]

if this isn't a bit, you are completely clueless about women, and will not be getting regular sex anytime in the near future.

[Fooomfh]

that's what i'm talking about.

none of this would have happened if you'd just been thinking about sex with your girlfriend the whole time. now you'll probably end up going to her parents' house anyway, but under a cloud of shame that will never lift in time for sex this weekend. meanwhile, your buddies probably drink all the time and you see them a lot.

unless you're whipped by your girlfriend and the guys give you crap about it all the time, i don't your understand actions so far. sex is healthy. do it. do it.

also, next time, don't let her know you're debating the issue. she doesn't want to feel like she's competing with your friends. this is all on my blog.

[Fooomfh]

i'm really enjoying this thread. no matter what happens, Just Visiting, i'm here for you within the context of this message board, and i'm eager to hear how this turns out. i have a lot more to say, but i'll hold off for now. i think we're on the brink of an even larger discussion of boyfriend/girlfriend tactics involving theoretical/idealistic and real-life approaches to women. or not, and this thread will just die.

[Just Visiting]

weather or not this thread dies i'm sorta hoping my girlfriend does at this point. not really but shes pissing me off for sure.

[Crago]

Buy her some flowers or something, Just Visiting. Tell her your sorry and I'm sure everything will be fine.

Can you go to both?

[speedymarie]

she sounds like a nag to me. dump her and look for a nice, pliable woman who asks nothing of you. they're much easier to deal with.

[Just Visiting]

two girlfriends ago was a pliable chick alright none of her pants barely fit.

[Still Just Visiting]

i wonder if i was banned out of jealousy or spite but either way a few people will see this post and stop wondering why no one ever posts here. later evryone.

[Crago]

Does that mean the polls are closed, Still Just Visiting?

[jeetkunedochic]

hang with the guys. its not like she'll be pissed because you didn't spend memorial day with her. its not a hallmark holiday; you should be fine.

[Crago]

Well. What happened?

Toss us the deets, yo'! How'd it go?

[Fooomfh]

no kidding, tell us what happened.

and explain this previous quote: "two girlfriends ago was a pliable chick alright none of her pants barely fit."

also, it seems like there was a lot going on between you and your girlfriend before this memorial day crisis, or at least you were pondering a lot about her. some of that information could have helped us give you better advice. i was really advocating you just having sex with her, you know, because i think that's good for you. but if it's a really frustrating relationship, no matter how attracted you are to her, it's not worth it.

god. seeing people fight in public is the worst.